Too much

Yesterday was the tipping point. I'm not sure if it was the mom's attitude, some of the choices that social services has made, or the miscommunication, but we erupted. 

I'm not sure if fostering is meant for working people. I understand the commitment to transporting the kids to various appointments, but 5 visits a week with the potential to add 2 more for one of the birth dads is too much. We are going to do it, because we love the kids, but the fallout is 2 tired, cranky and cracked out on processed food kids. Behavior has been awful.